June 16, 2010
Father's Day is here again. I miss my dad. He's
been gone for 11 years. He was definitely one of a kind. When
God created Him - He broke the mold - HA! I have a lifetime of memories
that keeps him alive in my life. All these memories bring laughter and
joy, mixed with tears. As you know relationships are fragile. Dad and I
had a wonderful relationship, but not without a few bumps at times in
our life. Now that I am a parent…and a grandparent, I understand that I
too was probably a handful to manage! "Who me?" HA!
The following is a life-changing event that
happened in my relationship with my father:
One night in a bus, years
ago, I was tossing and turning until it finally dawned upon me that God
was trying to wake me up to talk to me. I stumbled up front, propped
myself on the couch and still dragging and sleepy I asked, "OK, God,
here I am. What do you want me to do-pray? For whom or for what?"
The Lord began to speak,
"Gloria, I want you to write a tribute to your father and put it in your
hometown paper by June 21."
I was still half asleep.
Again, the Lord repeated the same words. Finally I said, "Well, why? For
what reason?"
"Gloria, when you were 15
years old, your dad said something to you one night that really hurt you
and has left a scar in your relationship. I want you to forgive him.
Write a tribute telling your father how much you appreciate him. Let him
know you haven't been a perfect daughter, but that you love him. This
will release forgiveness and patch up the little crack in your
relationship with him."
I was so tired, I said,
"OK, Lord, I'll do it another time…"
The Lord said, "NOW!"
I argued, "Why now, Lord? I
want to sleep. It's so quiet and the bus is still; I want to sleep!"
The Lord again commanded,
"NOW! What's My blessing worth in your life?" So, I took my pen and
paper, wrote from my heart a loving tribute and sent it to the Sisseton
Courier. It appeared in the weekly newspaper the week of Father's Day. I
then realized why God had given me that special date. As soon as I sent
the letter, I felt a renewed love for my dad, more than I ever had
before.
A week after my article was
in the newspaper Larry and I were eating at a local restaurant. When we
got up to the cashier, the waitress greeted us, hesitated and placed
the food ticket down on the counter. With tear-filled eyes she
struggled, "Gloria, I read your article about you and your father. It
really touched me. My father and I had a falling out a couple of years
ago, and I pulled away from him. I wanted to go back and make things
right and apologize, but my pride kept me from doing it. Then, two weeks
ago, he died unexpectedly of a heart attack. He was only in his mid
50's. I guess I thought that he would live forever and I would have lots
of time to make it right. I was so wrong!" Tearfully she confessed,
"I'll have to live with this regret for the rest of my life. I wish your
article had been in the Courier two weeks earlier." I quietly
encouraged her and said a soft, quiet prayer for her right there before
we left.
Life is too short to live with regrets of past
hurts and words left unspoken. By choosing to not forgive, we are the
ones who live on "Bitterness Boulevard". Anger will soon steal our joy,
peace and purpose in life. I know; I was there!
George Herbert, a seventeenth century English
poet wrote, "He that cannot forgive others, breaks or burns the bridge
over which he himself must pass over if he would ever reach heaven."
Satan delights in damaging family relationships. Mark 3:25 states, "If a
house be divided against itself it cannot stand." In other words, it's
doomed.
Can I encourage and challenge you today? If
there is division or unforgiveness in your family or relations, please
go make it right. LIFE
IS TOO SHORT TO LIVE IN REGRET! Write a note, make a phone call,
send an email-whatever you feel is best, but do it…NOW! Like me, you
will once again be set free to experience the fullness of joy and peace
in your life which the Lord intends for you to have.
"Forgive all those who have offended you, not
for them, but for yourself." --Harriet Nelson
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Ministry Update: Can it be…two weeks of June is history?
The summer is going to fly by.
June has given us two wonderful weekends of
ministry so far in Cavalier and Grand Forks, North Dakota. On June 6th,
we journeyed up to Cavalier, ND which is just a stone's throw from the
Canadian border. Pastor Thomas Simmons and his wife Lynn warmly greeted
us. God did some real special things in the lives of many. A great
number of prodigals
who had fallen away from God had returned home. I love those altar reunions!
God's Word says if we call upon Him, He will hear us and answer our
prayers. Many of us are praying for our children and we must hold onto
God's promises.
"On the Sunday following the
Lundstrom's visit with us I asked the church if they appreciated having
the Lundstroms come and minister with us. There were praises and smiles
all around! We were blessed by the decisions made for Christ and
grateful for a "prodigal" visitor who teared up when we spoke of the
Lundstrom's time of ministry showing God ministering to her in a pretty
powerful way. They're both fun people and we sure enjoyed having them
here!"
Rev. Thomas Simmons
Cavalier Assembly of God
Cavalier, ND
After Cavalier, we zipped back to South Dakota
to work at our home office during the week and then drove up to Grand
Forks, ND to minister at Freedom Church on June 13th. Freedom
Church is a new church planting in down-town Grand Forks that is
nestled in the midst of the hustle and bustle of coffee shops, boutiques
and a park lending itself to being a meeting area for college students.
Freedom Church is drawing in a lot of those college students. They
added so much energy to the two morning services. As we sang and
ministered we sensed such a hunger and desire for the truth and their
search for God and the Word was written all over their faces. The altar
call was precious with many young couples, students and others that made
decisions for Christ.
"It was a true blessing to
have Larry and Gloria minister in each of our morning worship services. I
appreciate their faithfulness to the Lord and their unswerving
dedication to their evangelistic calling.
Whenever Larry and Gloria
minister, you know there are going to be people who will dedicate their
lives to the Lord. It was no different at Freedom Church. It was moving
to watch a number of people receive Christ. For many of them, it was a
first time commitment. Praise the Lord!"
Pastor Nathan Johnson
Freedom Church
Grand Forks, ND
We're excited for the next couple of weeks as
we finish the rest of our tour in North Dakota. Enjoy the rest of June -
we'll talk to you soon!
Gloria
QUOTE
"I talk and talk and talk, and I haven't taught people in 50 years
what my father taught by example in one week." -- Mario Cuomo
CHUCKLE/REFLECTION
Cat's in the Cradle
By:
Author Unknown
My child arrived just the other day,
He came to the world in the
usual way.
But there were planes to catch and bills to pay,
He
learned to walk while I was away;
And he was talkin' 'fore I knew it,
And
as he grew he'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, Dad,
You know I'm gonna
be like you."
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue
and the man in the moon.
"When ya comin' home, Dad?" "I don't know
when,
But we'll get together then,
You know we'll have a good time
then."
My son turned ten just the other day,
He said, "Thanks for the
ball, Dad, come on let's play.
Can you teach me to throw? "I said,
"Not today, I got a lot to do."
He said, "That s okay." And he walked
away, but his smile never dimmed,
It said. "I'm gonna be like him,
yeah, You know I'm gonna be like him."
Well, he came from college just the other day,
So much like a man,
l just had to say, "
Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for awhile?"
He
shook his head and he said with a smile.
"What I'd really like Dad,
is to borrow the car keys.
See you later, can I have them please?"
I've long since retired, my sons moved away.
I called him up just
the other day. I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind.
"He
said, "I'd love to, Dad, if can find the time.
You see, my new jobs a
hassle and the kids have the flu,
But it's sure nice talkin' to you,
Dad, It's been sure nice talkin' to you."
And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me,
He'd grown up just
like me, my boy was just like me.
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue
and the man in the moon. "When you comin' home, Son?"
"I don't know
when, But we'll get together then, Dad, We're gonna have a good time
then."
"Don't allow this to happen in your
lives. These precious moments --each experience and stage of life--can
only be lived once."