We received this video in an email and felt it was very appropriate to share it today, on Memorial Day, as we remember and honor those in the Armed Forces who have given so much for the freedoms we have.
A week ago on Mother's Day we ministered in Wahpeton, ND at Harvest Outreach Church with Pastor Dominick and Loralie Warne. What a precious family. I had so much fun ministering to the moms, encouraging them: don't give up, don't run away, just pull closer to Christ.
"Gloria and Larry, Thank you so much for returning to Harvest Outreach Church. Your love for people and to minister to the lost is passionate! We love to see people living for Jesus with vibrancy! Your message to Mom's was really a message to the family and it included a point to ponder for everyone. Thank you for being real and transparent. We heard several comments that your message "hit home", "it was timely", and it "was a powerful seed planted" to those needing to make a decision for Christ.
We loved our time with you personally. Thanks for loving on our kiddos, your inclusion and conversation was a joy! It meant a lot to us and to them! Blessings and may God open doors everywhere you go...new and old!"
Pastors Dominick and Loralie Warne
I am writing now from the Black Hills of South Dakota. We are nestled in a motel in the pines with a room filled with computers and office work. I'd rather be outside hiking, but you know how it is…gotta work -ha! We will be based out of here for the next two weeks to do our services and office work.
"Thank you for coming to our little church in Stickney, SD. We really enjoyed the music; especially the song, Step into the Water. We appreciated the gospel message that was presented."
"It was great to still see the Holy Spirit at work in the church at Stickney, SD. Blessing to the both of you as you fulfill God's call on your ministry."
Pastor Marlin Sapp
Stickney is a small community, just about 30 miles outside of Mitchell, SD. We were honored to stay in the Lincoln House, which is a Bed and Breakfast, which is listed in the Historical Society. Saturday night we got to bed early to be well rested and ready for Sunday morning service. Just before we went to bed we had the TV on and watching the weather patterns of impending storms and tornado warnings. We were in a deep sleep when the siren went off a block away. I thought, "Oh no, I don't remember my alarm clock sounding like that or being that loud!" I awakened enough to say "Larry, I think that's a tornado siren." He groaned, "Oh." I said, "Oh, no- we have got to get up, we are on the second floor of this little historical bed and breakfast." The siren blared mercilessly, causing my heart to pound and making me wonder when this tornado was going to hit.
We quick threw on our regular clothes and were just going out the door when the siren stopped. We stood there awhile and then quickly took of our clothes, and jumped back in bed…only to have the siren start blaring again. Frantically, we threw back on our clothes, ran down the long staircase to outside wondering, "where do we run, where do we go?" As we stood there in turmoil, someone came up to us and informed us that it was actually an emergency siren, not a tornado siren. We were relieved but definitely awake for the rest of the night. I told Larry after breakfast the next morning, "Larry, I learned one thing through this siren alert: if it had truly been a tornado, you and I would've been caught up in it for as slow as we moved to get out of there." He, of course, just laughed.
"I learned one thing through this siren alert if it had truly been a tornado, the slow speed at which we moved, we would've been caught up in it. We need more emergency drills to practice our timing.
Right after I wrote this, the news broke out on the weather channel announcing the deadly tornadoes that had hit Oklahoma. We are praying for those who have lost their homes and loved ones. We can make plans, but we never know what interruptions in life are going to take place. Again, it challenges us to always be ready to meet the Lord, as we never know where our next heart beat will be.
Enjoy the next couple of weeks; whether attending graduations or remembering many on Memorial Day, live in His peace and joy and set up opportunities for others to do the same!
"The legacy of heroes is the memory of a great name and the inheritance of a great example."
- Benjamin Disraeli
Four Things
Four things a man must learn to do
If he would make his record true:
To think without confusion clearly;
To love his fellow men sincerely;
To act from honest motives purely;
To trust in God and Heaven securely.
By Henry Van Dyke
{ Recipe}
Cream Cheese Balls
1 (1 lb.) pkg. cream cheese
Dash of Tabasco sauce
Dash of Worcestershire sauce
6 slices crisply fried bacon - crumbled
Salt & pepper to taste
Combine all ingredients until well blended. Roll into marble-sized balls. These may then be rolled in chopped nuts or crushed crackers. Yield: 24 balls
Since most recipes call for both salt and pepper, keep a large shaker filled with a mixture of both. ¾ salt and ¼ pepper is a good combination.
I ran across this article and wanted to share it with all of you. Motherhood is such a treasure, both to mother and child. With Mother's Day coming up on Sunday, rest in the knowledge that God created YOU to be the mother of your children. He has confidence in you. Whether they are young or old, close or far away, He will give you the love and knowledge for every situation. Lean into Him always and He will show you the beauty of living in joy and peace, no matter what circumstances you may face.
I ran across this article and wanted to share it with all of you. Motherhood is such a treasure, both to mother and child. With Mother's Day coming up on Sunday, rest in the knowledge that God created YOU to be the mother of your children. He has confidence in you. Whether they are young or old, close or far away, He will give you the love and knowledge for every situation. Lean into Him always and He will show you the beauty of living in joy and peace, no matter what circumstances you may face.
How Mothers Were Created
(excerpted from Motherhood The Second Oldest Profession)
While the Good Lord was creating mothers He was into His sixth day of "overtime" when the angel appeared and said, "You're doing a lot of fiddling around on this one." And the Lord said, "Have you read the spec on this order?"
She has to be completely washable, but not plastic. Have 180 movable parts…all replaceable. Run on black coffee and leftovers. Have a lap that disappears when she stands up. Have a kiss that can cure anything from a broken leg to a disappointed love affair. And have six pair of hands.
The angel shook her head slowly and said, "Six pairs of hands…not possible."
"It's not the hands that are causing me problems," said the Lord. "It's the three pairs of eyes that mothers have to have."
"That's on the standard model?" asked the angel.
The Lord nodded. "One pair that see through closed doors when she asks, 'What are you kids doing in there?' when she already knows. Another here in the back of her head that see what she shouldn't, but what she has to know, and of course the ones here in front that can look at a child when he goofs up and reflect, 'I understand and I love you' without so much as uttering a word."
"Lord," said the angel, touching His sleeve gently, "come to bed. Tomorrow…"
"I can't," said the Lord, "I'm so close to creating something so close to myself. Already I have one who heals herself when she is sick…can feed a family of six on one pound of hamburger…and can get a nine-year-old to stand under a shower."
The angel circled the model of The Mother very slowly. "It's too soft," she sighed.
"But tough," said the Lord excitedly. "You cannot imagine what this Mother can do or endure."
"Can it think?"
"Not only can it think, but it can reason and compromise," said the Creator.
Finally, the angel bent over and ran her fingers across the cheek. "There's a leak," she pronounced. "I told you you were trying to put too much into this model. You can't ignore the stress factor."
The Lord moved in for a closer look and gently lifted the drop of moisture to his finger where it glistened and sparkled in the light.
"It's not a leak," He said. "It's a tear."
"A tear?" asked the angel. "What's it for?"
"It's for joy, sadness, disappointment, compassion, pain, loneliness and pride."
"You are a genius," said the angel.
The Lord looked somber. "I didn't put it there."
We will be doing a Mother's Day service in Wahpeton, North Dakota this Sunday and would love to see you there!
Have a Mother's Day full of joy, peace and heart-warming memories - we'll chat next week!
"If you have a mom, there is nowhere you are likely to go where a prayer has not already been."
- Robert Brault
{ Recipe}
Almond Joy Cake
In large cookie sheet pan, bake 1 chocolate cake (with pudding in the mix). Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutes. While the cake is baking, prepare the filling:
1 cup evaporated milk
1 cup sugar
24 large marshmallows
14 oz coconut
Heat filling mixture until melted and add coconut. While cake is hot---pour filling over top.
Frosting:
1 ½ cups sugar
½ cup evaporated milk
1 stick butter/margarine
1 ½ cups chocolate chips
Greetings from the Road! We left Texas last week and drove into Oklahoma. It was interesting to see a field of corn that was up about 6 inches. I thought to myself, "I'm sure the Midwest was hoping that the snow was melted by now and that the fields were dry enough to have planted their crops." We're thanking the Lord that Fargo, North Dakota, where many of our friends are, has been lowering the flood predictions.
Greetings from the Road! We left Texas last week and drove into Oklahoma. It was interesting to see a field of corn that was up about 6 inches. I thought to myself, "I'm sure the Midwest was hoping that the snow was melted by now and that the fields were dry enough to have planted their crops." We're thanking the Lord that Fargo, North Dakota, where many of our friends are, has been lowering the flood predictions.
"I've known the Lundstrom's most of my life. I received Christ as my savior at a Lunstrom meeting in Thief River Falls, MN in 1969.
It has recently been our honor to help host Larry & Gloria in a joint service together with the local Assemblies of God Church in Wagoner, OK. We had a wonderful time and lives were touched. Since the service I've heard comments from those who attended that Larry and Gloria are genuine, humorous, soothing, encouraging, and carry a simple gospel message. Our two churches in this town were truly impacted and ministered to in a special way. We look forward to when the Lunstrom's can make their way to Wagoner again."
Here's the spiritual application that came to me last week. John 15:5 says, " I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing."
It is so true. If we will stay connected to the Giver of Life, the Vine, we will stay strong and sure in our faith; so confident in His love and provision for us that we are able to be at peace. This is available to all of us, through our acceptance of what Jesus did for all. The "fruit" of that kind of connectedness is a life that overflows with His love, joy, hope and peace...because it flows from Him (the Vine) to us (the branch). That is the kind of life He offers us.
Dear God, I think about You sometimes even when I'm not praying. - Elliot
Dear God, I didn't think orange went with purple until I saw the sunset You made on Tuesday. - Margret
Dear God, The bad people laughed at Noah - "You made an ark on dry land you fool". But he was smart, he stuck with You. That's what I would do. - Eddie
Dear God, I bet it is very hard for You to love all of everybody in the whole world. There are only 4 people in our family and I can never do it. - Nan
{ Recipe}
Crunchy Romaine Strawberry Salad
1 (3 oz.) pkg. ramen noodles, discard seasoning packet
1 c. chopped walnuts
Saute together and set aside.
¼ c. vegetable oil
¼ c. sugar
2 T. red wine vinegar
½ tsp. soy sauce
Mix together in a blender. Set aside.
8 c. torn romaine
½ c. chopped green onions
2 c. fresh strawberries, sliced
Right before serving put everything together.
Greetings from Longview Texas! I just called our home office in South Dakota a little while ago and they are preparing for another blast of winter…who would've thought there could be nearly 5 months of winter and snow - ha! It's 30 degrees there in South Dakota and it's almost 90 degrees here in Texas.
Next week we'll be ministering at an evening service at the Wagoner Church of God in Wagoner, Oklahoma. You can contact them here: 918-485-1743. We would love to have you join us. It is always so special to have friends from all over the U.S. come and join us when we are in their area.
-Douglas Pagels
1. God wants spiritual fruit, not religious nuts.
2. Dear God, I have a problem, it's Me.
3. Growing old is inevitable…growing UP is optional.
4. There is no key to happiness. The door is always open.
5. Silence is often misinterpreted but never misquoted.
6. Do the math…count your blessings.
7. Faith is the ability to not panic.
8. Laugh every day, it's like inner jogging.
9. If you worry, you didn't pray. If you pray, don't worry.
10. As a child of God, prayer is kind of like calling home every day.
11. He who dies with the most toys is still dead.
12. The most important things in your house are the people.
13. When we get tangled up in our problems, be still. God wants us to be still so He can untangle the knot.
14. A grudge is a heavy thing to carry.
15. Blessed are the flexible for they shall not be bent out of shape.
{ Recipe}
1 lb. hamburger, browned and drained
2 med. Boxes Velveeta cheese
5 T. Ortega green chili salsa
1 lg. jar thick and chunky salsa
Put cheese and salsa in microwave safe bowl. Microwave until cheese is melted. Add meat and put back in microwave for about 5-10 minutes. You can add jalepeno peppers or juice if you want it hotter. Serve hot with chips.
Stay organized by storing cleaning supplies in a plastic shoe holder over the back of the laundry room or closet door. They are easy to access and it saves space.
Do you have time for a quick, whirl-wind update? Here we go! Greetings from Texas! It's great to be back in this big state. We had an awesome time in Louisiana, we ministered at the First Assembly in Metairie, LA, which is a suburb of New Orleans. It was precious to be back with Pastor Flanagan and his wife, his associate Eddie and his wife, and the staff. They are all so special to us. We have been ministering every two years at First Assembly since the early 80s.
"What a wonderful blessing to have Larry and Gloria with us at First Assembly. Their sincere compassion for our church is evident as they reach out to all who are hurting and in need of a miracle. Our church is always excited when they are here…and we further know that they pray for us when we are apart. No one should miss the opportunity to have them come and bless everyone. First Assembly loves them very much."
"Thank you for coming to First Assembly and ministering to us again. As always, you blessed our hearts. It is wonderful to see your sweet spirits and love of people. Your many years of ministry have made you rich in His grace and given you that special ability of ministering so freely to God's people.
Carolyn and I love you and are praying that your health and strength will be renewed so you may be able to continue your ministry. There are yet many souls that need to hear the unchanging message of the cross. May His blessings abound in your lives and ministry. God bless and keep you!"
"When the Lundstrom bus rolls in, our hearts rejoice because we are assured that God has sent His very best to bless us. Every time Brother Larry and Sister Gloria are with us, the Spirit leads them to bring forth peace, joy and hope to us all. They are truly family at First Assembly.
Linda Gaffney
Secretary at First Assembly of God of Greater New Orleans
Metairie, LA
"Larry and Gloria, it was such a joy and blessing to be with you again after many years. Your friendship through the years have meant so much to us. Your steadfastness in ministry and hunger for souls still reminds us the calling for Evangelist in all our churches.Your presentation of the Gospel in Song and the Word is so refreshingfor all to receive. Thank you for your continued investment in the church of Jesus Christ. If the Lord tarries, we hope to see you again soon."
Rev. Randy Plessala
PromiseLand Fellowship
Bayou Vista, LA
This Sunday we'll be in Crosby, Texas and then off to Oklahoma for a multi-church community event. Many blessings to you until we chat again!
As Good Friday and Easter are approaching, I was reminded of this article of Larry's that really captures the spiritual climate that we are living in now.
As Good Friday and Easter are approaching, I was reminded of this article of Larry's that really captures the spiritual climate that we are living in now.
The Cross Made the Difference
At the beginning of the twentieth century, Andrew Murray wrote: "It is the great need of the church today to have the crucifixion of the flesh preached, and the cross restored to its place (the cross of Christ)." Some of us recall the "deeper life" conferences which revived the emphasis upon the Christians' deliverance from the power of sin. It was, as Paul Harvey would say, "the rest of the story." It is part of the message that has fallen into neglect. Too often, we are offered a "cheapened gospel"-just pray a prayer and then go do as you like! Can the reason be the same as was indicated by Murray? He wrote: "It is easy for man's wisdom to win men to a cross that leaves them uncrucified."
A sad proclamation that is often heard is, "you can't tell the difference between the church and the world" (referring to the lack of seeing a lifestyle change, of course). When we are saved, our lifestyle and lip-style should undergo a noticeable change. That's called the "Crucified Life!"
Many are faithfully led to the cross for salvation from the penalty of sin. Few of them are led into deliverance from the domination of their old, carnal nature. They have come to the cross of Christ, but have not gone with Him to the other side to live on resurrection ground.
To go through the cross is consent to the death of one's self-life. It is to recognize that it was not only His death; it was our death, too! When He died, we died. When He rose, we rose with Him, ascended with Him, and are seated together with Him at the Father's right hand (II Cor. 5:14-15, Eph. 2:5-7). In Romans 6, we learn of our identification with Christ in His death and resurrection and how to apply it to our daily walk.
It is time for another revival of this truth. The time has come to rally around the preaching of the cross that crucifies the flesh, disturbs the self-life, plucks out the carnal eye and cuts off the offending hand. It puts the "self" in us to death.
Often, the reason why Christians do not grow in grace, or become more effective witnesses for Christ, is that they haven't died to the flesh and taken on the identity of Christ. The world needs to see the difference-the change in our lives!
There is a lost and dying world that needs the Gospel message. Let's be faithful as "Crucified-with-Christ" Christians to point others to the cross of Christ. Let others see what a difference the cross has made in your life!
Amen! May you have a weekend that is blessed with His grace, love and overcoming presence.
- Henry Knox Sherrill
Three guys were tried for crimes against humanity.
Two guys committed crimes.
One guy didn't.
Three guys were given government trials.
Two guys had fair trials.
One guy didn't.
Three guys were whipped and beaten.
Two guys had it coming.
One guy didn't.
Three guys were given crosses to carry.
Two guys earned their crosses.
One guy didn't.
Three guys were mocked and spit at along the way.
Two guys cursed and spit back.
One guy didn't.
Three guys were nailed to crosses.
Two guys deserved it.
One guy didn't.
Three guys agonized over their abandonment.
Two guys had reason to be abandoned.
One guy didn't.
Three guys talked while hanging on their crosses.
Two guys argued.
One guy didn't.
Three guys knew death was coming.
Two guys resisted.
One guy didn't.
One.
Two.
Three guys died on three crosses.
Three days later.
Two guys remained in their graves.
One guy didn't.
- Author Unknown
4 cups cooked ham, diced
1 cup green pepper, diced
1 (7 oz.) jar pimentos
1 cup celery, diced
½ cup sweet pickle relish
¾ cup mayonnaise
2 T. prepared mustard
1 tsp. finely grated onion
Stir mayo and mustard together and add remaining ingredients. Great way to use up leftover ham!
Greetings from the Gulf Coast - specifically Biloxi, Mississippi! We drove in here last Friday night and are perched in an RV park until Friday when we drive to Metairie, Louisiana (New Orleans) for our Sunday morning service. Larry is "itching" to get back into the pulpit!
Greetings from the Gulf Coast - specifically Biloxi, Mississippi!
We drove in here last Friday night and are perched in an RV park until Friday when we drive to Metairie, Louisiana (New Orleans) for our Sunday morning service. Larry is "itching" to get back into the pulpit!
Speaking of Larry...thank you to all of our family, friends and partners who have held him up in prayer. He's doing good - he's just a bit tired and lacking a little physical strength. Good news though...he came through the TIA without any side effects! We praise God for His almighty hand on him at that time - and five baby aspirin. In case you wonder what that's all about - when this impending stroke hit him, we were sitting in a restaurant. LaShawn and I knew something was going very wrong when Larry looked confused and had trouble talking. (He usually doesn't have that problem - Ha!) I gave him 3 baby aspirin, and five minutes later I gave him 2 more. A long, long story made short, the Neurologist and Cardiologist approached me in the Emergency room while they were doing tests on Larry, looked at me with piercing eyes and asked, "Are you the one who gave him 5 baby aspirin?" I was scared to admit it, not knowing if I did something really wrong, but I let them know I had. Well, the Cardiologist looked at me and proclaimed, "Those baby aspirin saved him from a massive stroke!" He smiled, held up his hand, gave me a high-five and said, "Good girl!" Wow, you'll never know how relieved I was to hear that!
So anyway, God is very good, He's always good. Now it's just the task of keeping Larry from being overly active and keeping him off ladders...it's a huge security job for me - ha!
First Assembly of God of Greater New Orleans
"When we face difficulties, we sometimes forget God's past faithfulness. We see only the detours and the dangerous path. But look back and you will also see the joy of victory, the challenge of the climb, and the presence of your Traveling Companion who has promised never to leave you nor forsake you."
- Author Unknown
A Minnesota couple decided to vacation to Florida during the winter. They planned to stay at the very same hotel where they spent their honeymoon 20 years earlier. Because of hectic schedules, it was difficult to coordinate their travel schedules. So, the husband left Minnesota and flew to Florida on Thursday. His wife would fly down the following day.
The husband checked into the hotel. There was a computer in his room, so he decided to send an e-mail to his wife. However, he accidentally left out one letter in her e-mail address, and without realizing his error, he sent the e-mail (without realizing he sent it to someone else).
Meanwhile.....somewhere in Houston, a widow had just returned home from her husband's funeral. He was a minister of many years who was called home to glory following a sudden heart attack. The widow decided to check her e-mail, expecting messages from relatives and friends. After reading the first message, she fainted.
The widow's son rushed into the room, found his mother on the floor, and saw the computer screen which read:
Rainbow Cake
1 pkg. white or yellow cake mix
1 pkg. vanilla instant pudding
1 cup cold water
½ cup cooking oil
4 eggs
Mix the above ingredients. Pour 1/3 into a bowl and add 1 small can of Hershey's syrup. Add a food coloring to the other 2/3. Use a Teflon Bundt pan, or grease a Bundt pan and pour chocolate mixture into the Bundt pan, then pour colored mixture over the chocolate. Run a knife through to marble. Bake at 350 degrees for 50 minutes.
When beating egg whites do not tap the beater on the bowl of the egg whites. The jarring of the beater will cause the whites to lose a great deal of their fluffiness. The beater should be tapped on the hand to clear off the whites.
First of all I apologize for not getting to you sooner! I was swallowed up in the midst of the crisis with dead cell phones, no chargers, no computer.....
GOOD NEWS! We brought Larry back from the Orlando Medical Center and he is doing soooooo much better.
They admitted him, did all the tests, and all looks well, except an artery in the back of his neck, which is very narrow. We asked about putting in a stint, and they said, "NO", as it is too dangerous. They have tried in the past and the patient died! So we voted that idea down. They said this may never happen again (happened 7 years ago) or it could happen in a hour, day, months or whatever. They changed his medication to something stronger to hopefully blast out any swimming clots that would surface.
Greetings from Florida! How great are the mercies of the Lord! That song has danced through my head most of the night…His mercies are forever and ever!
"God is our refuge and strength. An ever-present help in trouble."
- Psalm 46:1
Lemon Chiffon Salad
1 pkg whipped cream
Mix pudding as directed. Set aside. Mix Jello as directed and let set till jelly-like. Fold in whipped cream. Mix all together. Then add the pineapple (drained), the marshmallows, and bananas. Let set for about two hours.
To hang those adorable scarfs in your wardrobe, put shower rings on a hanger and hang each scarf through a shower ring!
Happy Valentine's Day! The focus of today, for many, is LOVE - how to show it, how to get it, how to give it. While it's wonderful to set aside special time to remember our loved ones, we believe an ongoing appreciation and commitment is love in its purest form; the kind of love that changes hearts, binds us together and makes us better people.
"'Till death do us part!" Those words should be written in several places in our homes to remind us of our binding agreement to stay together. A few years ago I saw a TV program that showed a couple being married in church. I was stunned as I heard their vow, "As long as we both shall love."
Marriages are becoming like the thousands of products advertised as "disposable." We live in a society of throwaway bottles, cans, diapers, towels, shavers and even disposable swimsuits. The "disposable" mindset has also spread and we now have disposable marriages, children, parents, churches, religion and God. The new philosophy is, "If you don't like it, throw it away!" One hundred and fifty years ago when the oath, "'Till death do us part" was taken, a determination was instilled in those tough pioneers that no matter how difficult the marriage might be, they would stay with it. Even if they had thought of divorce or running away, where would they run and how could they get there? Transportation and jobs were scarce and towns were far apart. Those brave people determined, "We'll make it!"
I was reared in a family of 13, with ten brothers...five older and five younger than myself. I was sandwiched right in the middle. Dad was a car dealer, and he worked hard to support us. Mom should have been given a purple heart award for keeping her sanity with eleven children who were always into something. One day when my brother, Larry, was about seven years old, he asked, "Mom, don't you have days when you feel like running away?" She laughed and responded, "Oh yes, but where would I go, how would I get there and who would want to keep me? So I guess I will stay right here at home with you sweet kids." She was actually saying, "I'm staying right here. I will make it!"
At one time, years ago, we were involved in one-night rallies for months on end. That was tiring enough, but I had never been able to sleep while the bus is rolling. Usually, fatigue would eventually catch up with me and I tended to become a bit crabby. Late one night, Murphy's Law ("Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.") was in full operation. The bus had been hitting and bouncing over a seemingly infinite number of section lines on the concrete interstate and secondary roads. I felt like I was trapped inside a giant paint shaker. "I can't handle it anymore," I thought to myself. "I just can't stand one more bump in the road. I'm jumping off!" Half asleep, I ran up the aisle to tell the bus driver, "Let me out. I can't stand anymore!" At that moment, I glanced out a window and discovered that we were traveling through a rough section of Chicago. The sight I beheld of drug addicts, gang members and general darkness overwhelmed and shocked me. Suddenly I calmed down as my perspective quickly changed, "Oh well, I guess riding in the bus is better than being out there." I went back to bed.
Today...more money, newer cars, better jobs, adult peer pressures, social clubs and all kinds of entertainment and new technologies are taking a toll on marriages. If things get rough, a woman is tempted to think, "My husband doesn't even know I exist. I'll show him. I'm just going to do my own thing." Before long, being a wife and mother just isn't fulfilling any longer. She begins to think she's married to a deadbeat so she disposes of husband number 1 and tries husband number 2. After a time when he doesn't bring fulfillment and excitement, then she tries husband number 3, then number 4 and possibly on and on. This same type of disillusionment happens to her husband. He's caught up in his work, too busy making money to remember that he has a wife and children at home. He becomes more and more involved in his business, in dinner meetings and completely immerses himself in a different world than one that includes his wife and children. He meets many attractive women. When he does come home, he finds thathis wife isn't as beautiful and intriguing as the lady business executive he just met. The thoughts begin that he would rather not be tied down to a wife and children. He would just as soon leave the house with its mortgage payments and upkeep. He thinks, "I will get rid of it all. I want to be free!" He disposes of his marriage and leaves behind a broken home and broken hearts.
Please understand...in both examples above, these people haven't truly alleviated their problems. They have just acquired more complicated and complex problems. Many marriages breakup because people had unrealistic expectations of living happily ever after and weren't prepared to face the responsibilities of the real world. There is no such thing as a perfect storybook marriage, but there are happy, and thriving marriages. They are the result of people's commitment to each other and to the Lord, combining their ambitions, goals, efforts, love and determination to make it work.
If you've ever felt like giving up - CHEER UP! You can make it! Remember your commitment to your mate and to the Lord. First Corinthians 13:7-8 gives us a great guideline for what love really means when you feel like giving up, "{Love} beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. {Love} never faileth." Please pray with me that God will help you to remember and renew your commitment.
Jesus, I come to You with praise and thanksgiving for Your total commitment to Your Heavenly Father. Your commitment and obedience led You to death on the cross of Calvary so that I might live. Now I ask that You would instill within me that same love, insight, obedience and commitment to you and to my mate. Help me daily to commit myself, my will, ambitions and goals to You and to the one to whom I've committed my life in marriage. In these rough times, renew a right spirit of love and forgiveness within me and give me the stamina to keep persevering. Help me to keep my eyes upon You as the perfect example of commitment. Amen.
"Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction."
- Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
"If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don't want to do it. It takes too long." -- Glenn, age 7
"My mother says to look for a man who is kind. That's what I'll do. I'll find somebody who's kinda tall and handsome." --Carolyn, age 8
"A man and a woman promise to go through sickness and illness and diseases together." -- Marlon, age 10
"Love will find you, even if you are trying to hide from it. I been trying to hide from it since I was five, but the girls keep finding me." -- Dave, age 8
"Tell your wife that she looks pretty even if she looks like a truck!" -- Ricky, age 7
Fudge Brownies
1 stick butter, melted
1 cup sugar
1 cup chocolate syrup
4 eggs
1 cup plus 1 T. flour
1 tsp. vanilla
Mix ingredients together and put in ungreased 13x9 pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 15-20 minutes. Sprinkle miniature marshmallows on top and melt. Frost with chocolate frosting.
To check baking powder to see if it is still good, put a pinch in a cup of warm water. If it fizzes immediately, it is still good.