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December 14, 2011
Merry Christmas & A Happy New Year!
Gloria and I want to thank you for all of your prayers, support and friendship throughout this past year. It definitely has been a journey of faith, a journey of holding on, and a journey of trusting Him.
Knowing He walked every step ahead of us gave us the strength, hope and joy to continue on.
We praise God for the hundreds that made decisions for Christ in 2011 and we rejoice in hearing of those who continue to grow in Christ. You, our faithful friends and partners, who sent us to share the simple Gospel message, have played an essential role in these lives that are changed for eternity...for that we truly thank you!
Gloria and I will have the joy of experiencing a Tennessee Christmas this year with all three of our children who live in Nashville. We will be home most of December and look forward to receiving your Christmas cards, letters and photos. Please keep us in your prayers - It truly means so much to us!
Have a blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Larry and Gloria
REFLECTIONS
In Loving Memory of Connie Lundstrom
It is with heavy hearts we start this Christmas season...our dear sister in law, Connie Lundstrom, went home to be with her Heavenly Father on December 13, 2011, after battling Stage IV cancer. I cannot begin to share the flood of emotions and tears Larry and I experienced as we received the phone call from her husband, Lowell Lundstrom, and her daughter, Londa Lundstrom Ramsey, telling us that Connie had passed away.
I called Connie about four days before she went to be with Jesus. We prayed together and we cried together. Our last words were, "I love you" to which she responded, "I love you too, Gloria." What a precious last memory we share. Connie is now free from pain and I know she is giggling as she shares this New Year with her first love, her heavenly Father, as well as with her family and friends who have gone on before her. We will deeply miss her.
Connie Lundstrom lived her "dash in life", June 7, 1938-December 13, 2011, to the fullest. My, how I would love to see the Crown of Faithfulness that now adorns her. We will miss her deeply.
FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS ARE AS FOLLOWS:
Visitation from 4-8 PM Tuesday, December 20, 2011 at Celebration Church, 16655 Kenyon Ave, Lakeville, MN 55044 with prayer and remembrance at 7pm.
Homegoing Service, 11am Wednesday, December 21, 2011 at Celebration Church.
Additional service will take place Thursday, December 22, 2011 at the Sisseton Fine Arts Center in Sisseton, SD at 11am. Interment: Peever Cemetery, Peever, SD.
In lieu of flowers, memorials will be forwarded by the family to some of Connie's favorite causes.
Christmas is....Forgiving
It is amazing how one space can change the meaning of one word or an entire sentence. As I was hurriedly writing the title of this article, I neglected to leave the space for my original title, "For Giving." When I noticed my mistake, "Forgiving," I thought, "Yes, Lord, forgiving at Christmas is many times more important than giving."
How many holiday get-togethers are marred by hurt feelings, resentment, anger, bitterness or flashbacks of past family feuds? Larry and I receive dozens of letters from friends and partners that confess some of their family members haven't talked or even seen each other for years because of some misunderstanding, heavy grievances, or careless insults thrown by the tongue causing a "fractured family." To those on the outside of these situations, we think, "Why can't they just kiss and make up?"
As kids growing up, if we threw cutting statements, false accusations, or instigated a fight, Mom brought out the fly swatter to punish us, but she had another form of punishment that to us was worse than spankings, starvation, extra chores, or throwing us on a deserted island-she made us kiss each other on the cheek and say, "I'm sorry!" Oh how we despised that! Ugh, to actually have to give a kiss! Yuck! We would be so mad at each other, but the minute we were forced to plop that kiss on each other's cheek, we instantly started to giggle, and once again, we were friends.
I often wondered how and why the anger between us siblings turned into giggles and laughter after the detested kiss. Now, as an adult and mother, I think I have finally come to the correct conclusion. Even though Mom forced us to approach each other, forced us to say "I'm sorry," and forced us to kiss one another on the cheek, something actually happened when we did. We were ridding the acid of resentment and hatred. When we vented it all out, the joy came back in, and we were restored to right standing with each other.
The family, the foundation of America, is self-destructing through unforgiveness. Often a family feud is a lot more than we or our feuders readily recognize. Often a family feud is an eruption of a lifetime of buried feelings-of rivalries, resentments, and of all kinds of unhealed hurts, many stretching back to childhood. Some feuders do not make up because they believe what has happened is unforgivable or because each is waiting for the other to make the right move. It is never too late to make it right.
Families all over America will be getting together to celebrate Christmas. Why not lay down your pride, write a note to an estranged family member and let forgiveness flow. Focus on rebuilding these relationships; then you, too, will feel the release and feel the "giggle" come to your spirit as the anger, resentment and guilt leave.
Colossians 3:13 says, "Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you so also do ye" (KJV). Family is the most treasured gift God has given us next to salvation. Let's cherish and choose to protect it.
May you have a blessed, unforgettable family reunion this Christmas!
Gloria